Are you Ready
Are you Ready??
You remember those olden days when, we were busy in schooling, studies, coaching and exams? When we looked at people who were working by then, we used to look at them with lot admiration and envy at times, as they have no exam pressure above all have their own earnings.. We literally used to wait to become “big”. But, when we actually grew big, we want to go back to our golden olden days and want our childhood back. Cause, we now know that, this promotion of growing big has a responsibility attached to it. Indeed, every elevation in life, right from being a student, employee, becoming life partner to someone, entering in to parenthood and so on will bring a responsibility along with it. Among the stated above, promotion of a “parent” is little more challenging where in you have to not only up bring your child but have to construct next generation, which is a social responsibility as well.
According to a recent survey, most of the couple are earning good, financially strong now, yet weak emotionally. When any couple can't handle their emotional ups and downs, will they be able to take up responsibility of a child? Answer is “yes” and “no”. As we all know that, there is no specific formula of raising kids. It differs from child to child. What works for your first child in the family, may not be workable for your fifth child; irrespective of your experience, concern here will be uniqueness of each kid. Are you ready for taking up such responsibility of understanding your child and raise them accordingly?
An infant touching your life is an amazing experience. It calls for more celebrations, followed by so much of joy and happiness. This is only visible to the outside world, but where in actual package is different like, foregoing your sleep, physical and psychological stress and work pressures will become part of your routine. Are you still ready to accept this responsibility of parenting?
If your answer is yes, then you have so many hospitals and counseling centers, who are creating awareness in would be parents and preparing them for child birth. But if any couple is not ready yet, due to various reasons, then never push them in to role of parents. Because, on this screen called life, we have to play so many roles and need to justify. When we are able to give our hundred percent then only its worth; perhaps, raising a child demands two hundred percent of yours. So, when you are ready to give this, your “bundle of joy”, actually brings happiness in your new elevated role of parents.
When you aim for a promotion, remember that, it comes with greater and greater responsibility. Are you ready??
- Bhavana