Its All About Cultivation.. 

“Parenting is a big challenging task in current scenario” is what most of the people feel. So much of research and development is happening on this subject and people are trying to understand parenting by using science and technology. However in olden days there was no specific formula for raising kids. There was no conscious act like parenting or no theory to follow. It used to happen in a very natural way. Now this situation is gone due to various changes and developments took place in the evolution of life.

But if you observe keenly, parenting is so very similar like cultivation; its like farming. Nevertheless, its not only about, advanced irrigation system you have, hybrid seeds you scatter or timely used fertilizer ureas etc but its all about the soil you have prepared for cultivation. In parenting, the above said mechanism is similar like things you facilitate to your children and needs of them which you meet...

But, the soil is nothing but the values you inculcate and environment you create and thought process you provoke in them. When we do this groundwork of parenting, farming happens automatically. Most important point to be remembered here is, during this cultivation process, one should only focus on harvesting and not on results. When you follow the process, your returns are assured.What are the values ? Ethics? Believes? If parents are stuck at this level, its an alarm, at which they need to stop for a while and find answers to themselves...

As a parent what are the qualities we have and what are the expectations we have from children, and the aspirations we have for the next generation; when we have clarity on this, we are almost there in our achievement. Because, clarity is power. So when one is empowered with clarity of thought and ethics and values in heart, they are ready for cultivation which yields results of wonderful generation which can fill the whole world with happiness and peace.

- Bhavana