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మీ పిల్లల ప్రత్యేకత ఏంటో మీకు తెలుసా..?

మీ పిల్లల ప్రత్యేకత ఏంటో మీకు తెలుసా..? మీ ఇంట్లో పసిపాపాయిని ఎప్పుడైనా గమనించారా! అల్లరిగా నవ్వుతూ..హాయిగా ఆడుకుంటూ ప్రపంచంలోని ఆనందం అంతా తన కోసమే అన్నట్టుగా కనిపిస్తుంది. అ నవ్వు, అ అల్లరి ...అ చిన్నిరూపం మనకి ఎన్నో నేర్పిస్తాయి...కొంచెం మనం గమనించగలిగితే.... పసివారి ప్రపంచం నిండా...ఎప్పుడు సంతోషమే...చిన్న చిరునవ్వు ఎప్పుడూ అలా వారి పెదాలపై కన్పిస్తూనే వుంటుంది. అందుకే పిల్లల్ని చూడగానే మన పెదాలపై నవ్వు విరిసేది...వారిలా మన పెదాలపై కూడా నవ్వు విరిస్తే ఆ నవ్వు ఎదుటివారి పెదాలపై కూడా పాకి...అలా అలా...వైరస్ లా అందరిని నవ్వులతో ముంచెస్తుంది...so పిల్లల్ను౦చి మనం నేర్చుకోవలసిన మెదటి పాఠ౦ ఈ చిరునవ్వే. ఇక "నాకు ఇదుంటేనే ఆనందంగా వుంటాను" అన్న బాధ ఉండదు పిల్లలకి - చీపురు పుల్లతో కూడా ఆడేసుకునే నేర్పు వారి స్వంతం - కుర్చితో కారు ఆట, కర్రతో గుర్రం ఆట ఇలా...వాళ్ళకి నచ్చిన ఆట ఆడేస్తుంటారు..ఆనందంగా వుంటారు. "దొరికిన దానితో ఆనందంగా ఉండగలగటం" ఎలా అన్నది పిల్లల నుంచి మనం నేర్చుకోవలసిన రెండవ పాఠ౦. కొత్తగా మాటలు నేర్చుకొనేటప్పుడు పిల్లలు వారికి వచ్చీరాని మాటల్నే పదేపదే అందరి ముందు చెబుతుంటారు. మాటలే కాదు...వాళ్ళు కొత్తగా ఏం నేర్చుకున్నా... దీక్షగా వాటినే ప్రాక్టిస్ చేస్తుంటారు...నడక నేర్చుకొనేటప్పుడు పడిపోతే లేస్తారు...మళ్ళీ ప్రయత్నిస్తారు. ఇలా వాళ్ళ ఎదుగుదలలో నేర్చుకోవలసిన ప్రతీ అంశాన్ని దీక్షగా, ఏకాగ్రతతో నేర్చుకుంటారు, వచ్చేదాకా ఊరుకోరు...'ఓటమి' అస్సలు నచ్చదు వాళ్ళకి..మన అదిలింపులు, బెదిరింపులు, ఏవీ వాళ్ళని ఆపలేవు. ఆ దీక్ష, ఆ ఏకాగ్రత, ఆ పట్టుదల ఇవి చాలు ఓ మనిషి తన లక్ష్యాన్ని చేరటానికి ..పిల్లల నుంచి మనం నేర్చుకోవలసిన మూడో పాఠ౦ ఇది. పిల్లలు అల్లరి చేయగానే విసుక్కుంటాం..ఒక్కోసారి తీవ్రంగా మందలిసస్తా౦....ఓ దెబ్బ కూడా వేస్తాం...పాప౦ వాళ్ళ memory ఎంత తక్కువంటే ...అమ్మ ప్రేమగా దగ్గరకు తీసుకోవగానే టక్కున అన్ని మర్చిపోతారు. మనకీ అలాంటీ short memory ఉంటే ఎంత బావుంటుందో కదా! నచ్చని విషయాల గురించి మనమేమో...ఎవరైనా ఓ మాట అంటే పదే పదే గుర్తుచేసుకొని, వారిని ద్వేషించి...మనం బాధపడి ఎంత తత౦గమో... simpleగా పిల్లల్ని follow అయితే ...నచ్చని వాటిని టక్కున మర్చిపోవటం మనం నేర్చుకోవలసిన నాలుగో పాఠ౦. ఇలా పిల్లల నుంచి మనమేం నేర్చుకోవచ్చు... అని మనం ఎన్నీ చెప్పుకున్నా ....వాటిని అలా చదివి ఇలా వదిలేస్తే ఏం లాభం చెప్పండి...నేర్చుకోవటం, నేర్చుకున్నదానిని ప్రయత్నించటం పిల్లల నుంచి నేర్చుకోవలసిన ఐదవ పాఠ౦. నేర్చోకోవటానికి ఎప్పుడూ సిద్దంగా వుంటారు పిల్లలు...అందుకే మనల్ని గమనిస్తూ చాలా నేర్చుకుంటారు. నేర్చుకోవలనే తపనే వుండాలి కాని పైన ఆకాశం కింద భూమి...ఎగిరేపక్షి, పాడేకోయల ఇలా అన్నీ మనకి జీవిత సత్యాలని నేర్పించేవే.... ఇదే పిల్లల ఆనందానికి సీక్రెట్... ఇదే పిల్లల్లోని అమాయకత్వానికి కారణం. వాళ్ళకి ఇగోలు లేవు. నాకే తెలుసన్న అహంలేదు.. నాకేం రాదన్న భయము లేదు.. అందుకే వాళ్ళు పిల్లలు ...దేవుని ప్రతిరూపాలు... మరి అ పిల్లలకి Children's Day సంధర్బంగా జేజేలు చెబుదామా!   - రమ

COME OUT OF DEPRESSION

COME OUT OF DEPRESSION! Every human is not so open to invite changes...though we are prepared for them, waiting for them, still when the time comes, we hesitate to accept those changes. I have to write a disclaimer now!...What we are going to discuss now may not happen with every new Mom. Dont force your mind to think of it. Spend every day Happily. Pregnancy comes with lot many surprises and challenges too! Hormonal changes are the cause, many a times. Delivery has its own clauses. Suddenly you dont like your tiny baby, the sweet li'l one of your dreams. Reasons, unknown. You feel like crying, you are irate, you shout at your husband..... Sametime, these extreme mood swings are not common, not every new Mom feels this way. If you or someone you know is depressed after delivery, just know one thing, you are not letting it affect your life. it is not going to stay with you forever. These feelings arise due to constantly staying in one room, nursing the child often without rest, feeling feverish due to bodily changes, seeing a crying baby beside you, restless days and nights, your body still in pain after the delivery, spending without any contact to the World, your most comfortable routine, disturbed. To feel better,there are some options.. Have the people you like, around you. Let your closest friends come and visit the baby..but make sure the environment is not infected by any means. Watch good movies, read books on Child care, these are your times of great interest in those topics. Get help in cooking, you should be constantly eating to regain strength and nurse often. If you have gained so much weight, dont worry. let not people bother you. That weight will disappear once you start doing things on your own after Grandma's gone. Cover your self, with sweaters, ear muffs, socks..those sudden chills are common after delivery. Warmth will give you relief. Dont sit and think about feeling depressed. Keep yourself happy. Run away from idle thoughts. Better have a Handycam and keep capturing those sweet moments with the Baby.   - Prathyusha Talluri. More articles from this author..... http://teluguone.com/vanitha/content/hospital-helpers-76-24920.html http://teluguone.com/vanitha/content/pediatric-and-child-76-24999.html      

KEEP YOUR COOL WITH YOUR BRAND NEW BABY

KEEP YOUR COOL WITH YOUR BRAND NEW BABY Congratulations!!! The greetings flow from everywhere, you are all smiles when you hear them. But the moment your baby cries, you freak out!! Its a li'l comforting to Mom when the husband doesnot feel nervous, but if both parents are nervous freaks, the house is a big mess. Trust me..its the same with most of us, but feeling the tension is not the solution atall. Keep your cool, maintain a smile, let not your baby know you are tensed. One reason traditionally elders' presence is so mandatory before and after the delivery, is that Grandma has a comforting suggestion for everything. Few points where you can listen to the GrandMother without running to the Doctor everytime. When the baby vomits milk often..its normal for babies to spit milk, they are still learning to swallow food. He/she will slowly get used to gulping liquids and later solids. When the baby cries/ frets during Poop time!!...again, babies are not used it, thier body reacts to the process, some babies cry , others make loud, drawn out sounds...nothing to panic, they will learn to handle it. Cry and cry,...either the room temperature is hot or cold, the diaper is soiled, the baby is hungry, sleepy, bored of staying in the same room..check for these things always everytime the baby cries..even otherwise, babies have been cuddled up in tummy until now, suddenly their feet and hands are let loose, which makes them uncomfortable...swaddle the baby and lull him/her to sleep. they are so used to that rocking movement in Mom's tummy..they will sleep. Following Granny's advice most of the times will save you a trip and money to the Doctor. However, you try all these, still you feel something's wrong, then better call the Doctor's office and get help.   - Prathyusha Talluri   More articles from this author..... http://teluguone.com/vanitha/content/pediatric-and-child-76-24999.html   http://teluguone.com/vanitha/content/milk-allergy-symptoms-76-24978.html  

Prevent Poisoning In Child

Prevent Poisoning In Child All the potential poisons like medicines, detergents, paints should be kept out of the reach and sight of your children. Make sure that all the medications - syrups, ointments and capsules - are stored in a medicine box. The syrups and ointments should have child-safety caps on, so that your baby does not pry them open and drink them. Store them in a locked cabinet. Clear all the expired medications from your medicine box. This is because outdated medicines are even more hazardous, when consumed. Always keep your dustbin covered with a lid, so that your kids cannot dig into the toxic things that you have thrown away. Never transfer potential poisons like naphthalene balls, phenyl, paints and cleaning products into coffee cans, milk containers, soda bottles etc. This may lead your child to drink or eat it, accidentally, mistaking them for edibles. Install childproof locks in your cabinets and drawers, before your kids learn to crawl and stand up straight. Keep some common poison treatments at home within your reach, so that you can treat the kid during emergencies, in the absence of a doctor. However, it is always suggested to call upon a doctor in case of poisoning. Be precautious while using household products, when your children are around. You can easily get distracted with other things, which may allow enough time for the children to get curious and creep in. Store the products in locked cabinets immediately after using them. Do not take medications in front of your children. Never refer these medicines as candy, because the children might swallow the 'candy' in your absence, when they get an opportunity to get a hold of the medicine bottles.

how to care your baby on first diwali

  Stick to your baby's routine Disrupting a baby's schedule could make her cranky and irritable. Whenever possible, try to stick to your little one's routine. It's better to make the effort to find a room where she can take a nap than to spend the rest of the day with an overtired baby. Try to keep familiar faces around Too many new faces, sights and sounds can over-stimulate even the most laidback baby. While young babies love to be touched, held, cooed and smiled at, they can tell the difference between strange and familiar faces by the time they are five or six months old. It may take longer for an older baby to warm up to visitors once she is more aware that she's an individual separate from you. So allow her the time she needs, she'll feel more secure if she has a familiar face with her. Choose comfortable clothing Clothes made out of natural fabrics are best as they will not irritate your baby's delicate skin. It's best to pick a colourful, traditional, yet simple outfit that does not have long drawstrings, sequins, beads or mirror work, as these may pose a risk of choking. Watch what your baby eats and drinks If your baby is exclusively breastfed and not weaned yet, it is best to not give her any sweets and savouries. Keep mithais, food, drinks and dried fruits out of your baby's reach. Even if your baby is eating solid food, some foods may not be safe for her just yet. It is best not to give your baby small pieces of food such as whole nuts, cashews (kaju) or raisins (kishmish), when she is just starting solids. Any small piece of food could be a choking risk for your baby. Any foods containing honey should not be given to your baby until she is a year old.

Prepare your kids for diwali

Prepare your kids for diwali               Diwali is just round the corner; All the parents must be busy in the preparations like, buying clothes and crackers, preparing sweets, special dishes for the occassion, housekeeping , Party arrangements for the guests etc. However, have ever thought that, along with these arrangements, you need to prepare your kids also for the occasion.               Especially when kids are below 5 years, instead of enjoying the “Diwali dhamaka”, they may get fearful of sounds, lights coming when crackers are burnt. Some kids cry throughout the festival, if they get irritated with the ear- splitting sounds. Instead of worrying about things at the last minute, it’s is always advisable to sit with your kids and explain them what is this festival of lights is all about.               Ensure that parents take utmost care in terms of arranging lamps, diyas in the house. Make sure, you are not exposing these diyas to kids; instead take all the safety measures.               Giving them, sense of security, cuddling them in your arms, slowly introducing crackers to them by lighting mild once, and crackers without sound are the better choices when have kids around.               If you know that, your locality will usually make a big blast on every Diwali season, you may go to your friend’s places or any place which is relatively quiet and safe for your infant.               Never ever force your child to burn crackers, unless he or she is showing interest. Neither comparing your children with neighbour’s children or teasing them that he/she is a coward is not a good practice. Hence, leave them till they come forward to participate in the event; if not, help your child in engaging with another activity as per his/ her choice. Nothing is big deal if he/ she is not burning the crackers. But if they loose their self confidence with your comments are discouraging talks, it will take much more time for you and your child to regain confidence. Have a safe and happy Diwali!!   - M.S.Bhavana

How to Deal With Bullies

  Investigate As a teacher it is your responsibility to handle the bully and ensure the welfare of all your students. Do not wait for the parents of the bullied to vehemently barge into your classroom and charge you of not taking appropriate actions. Keep an eye on student to student interaction. Before you take action and attempt to scold the concerned bully, investigate. Wander into his/her mind and question. What stimulates him or her to carry on with these atrocious and cruel acts? Where do these aggressive traits stem from? More importantly, why has the bully targeted the victim? Is it jealousy? Once you answer these questions, only then can you move ahead with damage control. Stress On Equality & Self Worth As mentioned before, we all come in different sizes. While it is humiliating to be as tiny as a midget, the tall amazons aren’t too comfortable either with their size, until they take on the identity of being powerful. Usually the bigger kids are the ones that take to bullying. A bully spares itself from any kind of teasing in class, by intimidating the rest in the guise of his/her size. As a teacher or parent, let the child know that everybody deserves to be treated as an equal. Size does not matter! It is personality and skills that do! Help him/her discover his/her own self worth so that he/she can discover the worth of everybody else! Eliminate All Threats Bullies bask in the glory of their power and thrive on the splendor of dominating their victims. The poor bullied souls are mortified and try at best to bunk school. They are too scared to let a word out or point fingers at the bully in fear that the bully’s threats may turn into a reality. The moment as parents, you unravel the case of your child’s tormented days, the best move is to contact the teacher or school principal. Threats to destroy belongings and physical assault can be controlled by amicably settling the situation with the parents of the bully. It is of utter importance that you protect your child from all sorts of bullying. Instill Confidence Train your kid to believe in himself/herself and to stand up for his/her rights! You aren’t always going to be around to watch him/her. Teach your children the significance of being able to defend themselves. By keeping mum, they will only encourage the bully to prolong the antics! Let your child know these facts of life and nudge him/her to make new friends.

అమ్మ చేతిలో బిడ్డ బరువు

  నెలలు నిండుతున్న ఉద్యోగానికి సెలవు పెట్టకపోతే మీ కడుపులోని బిడ్డకి హాని చేసిన వారవుతారు అంటూ హెచ్చరిస్తున్నారు పరిశోధకులు. ఎనిమిది నెలలు తర్వాత ఉద్యోగాలు వృత్తి పనులు మానుకోవడమే మేలని పరిశోధనల్లో తేలిందట.అలా వెళితే లోపల బిడ్డ ఎదుగుదల నెమ్మదిస్తుందని, బరువు తగినంత పెరగరని ఎసెక్స్ విశ్వవిద్యాలయం అధ్యయనంలో తేలింది. పుట్టినపుడు బిడ్డ బరువు వారి ఆరోగ్యం ఎదుగుదలపై చాలా ప్రభావాన్నిచూపిస్తుంది. కాబట్టి బిడ్డ ఆరోగ్యంగా మంచి బరువు తో పుట్టాలంటే గర్భం ధరించిన తరవాత ఎనిమిది నెలలకు ముందే సాధ్యమైనంత త్వరగా సెలవు తీసుకోవటం మేలని పరిశోధకులు సూచిస్తున్నారు.

HOW TO HELP A SENSITIVE CHILD

  1: Adjust your behavior It's easy to tell your son to "man up" or try to make your daughter behave differently. However, the truth of the matter is that some children (and adults) are just more sensitive than others. Instead of criticizing or trying to change your child's behavior, adjust your own. Love your child unconditionally and accept his sensitivity as you would anything else about him. 2: Figure out his triggers Does your child get overwhelmed in crowded places? Does he interact better in small groups rather than large ones? If you find your child gets upset, overwhelmed or highly emotional in certain situations, you can often defuse issues before they start. Work with your child to help him feel more safe and secure. 3: Take things slowly If your child gets distressed over new or different situations, don't thrust her into changes. Instead, take things slowly. Encourage her to try new things without scolding or correcting her behavior if she doesn't take to it right away. You want her to feel more self-confident, not less. So don't push her into a situation where she isn't going to be comfortable. 4: Focus on his strengths Being sensitive isn't a horrible thing. In fact, it can be beneficial in plenty of situations. If your child is especially sensitive to people's emotions or the feelings of animals, it could eventually be the driving force behind his career choices. Sensitive children might have a better than average imagination, be gifted in certain areas scholastically or empathize when many others don't. Focus on your child's strengths and help him develop strong skills and good habits. 5: Get help if you need it In some circumstances, your child's sensitivity may be related to sensory processing disorder. Learn about the signs and symptoms of SPD and talk to your pediatrician. Children with SPD general need more routines in their lives. You can also help curb their symptoms, by using a sensory "diet." Seek help from your doctor, occupational therapists and other specialists to help meet your child's needs.

Tips For Handling Hyperactive Children

  Reading a story is one of the best methods to keep your baby engaged. Doing this will not only help you increase his/her attention span, but also enhance his/her imagination power. Talking is another method that can keep your baby mesmerized for hours at a stretch. Whenever you baby is awake, try to talk to him/her as much as you can, even when you are working alongside. Hide some of the toys of your child or change their position. Now, encourage him/her to find new ways of playing with the rest of the toys or the newly arranged toys. This will keep him/her busy and also increase his thinking power. Forbidden territories always tend to make babies more curious. So, it is advisable not to stop them from going anywhere. If they want to make mess in the kitchen, put them in a tub with lots of whipped cream to play with and enjoy. You can also catch some funny and naughty photographs of your child at this time. Playing interactive games with parents are thoroughly enjoyable and preferable for most babies. Such games keep them busy and also increase their bonding with parents. Put the baby in a swing or carrier seat and give him/her some safe toys to play with. This will keep him/her busy for quite sometime. Involve your child in art or craft activities. It is a good method to build up his/her attention span, as he/she will be giving undivided time and attention to the work. Find out the areas in which your child has interest and encourage him/her to indulge in those activities. It could be anything like drawing, building models, sewing and even coloring. Another way to increase your child's attention is through giving him/her some responsibility. Ask your daughter to help you in arranging things and your son to fetch some items for you, while you are cooking in the kitchen. Having a pet can help curb the hyperactivity of many children. Along with that, it will also make them more loving, responsible and proud of themselves. Assign your children some tasks on a daily basis and make sure to appreciate and praise them when they do the work correctly.

Baby Proofing Highlights

  Baby proofing may not be useful to you if your children already crossed the age, but these suggestions will be welcome always for someone who is getting ready for a new baby or a toddler. We have covered the most accidental places in the house, looking for babyproofing. Lets wrap up with the the most crucial piece of advice: Don't leave your child alone in the bathroom, and especially don't leave your child alone in the bathtub (of any size), even for a second. Babies can drown in a few inches of water; don't run out to answer the phone or do anything else unless you pull your child out and take him/her with you. Then, as you did in the kitchen, move harmful products to high shelves, and remove all electrical appliances, handy water heaters and their cords to avoid electrical dangers. Some more purchases to put on your shopping list: Latches for the storage cabinet. A toilet lock A thermometer to ensure baby's bathwater is a safe temperature. Clear cosmetics and shampoos off sink and tub ledges, as they pose a poison risk. Overall in the house: Make sure all of your houseplants are nontoxic varieties. Some plants are extremely poisonous. Empty ashtrays promptly and keep matches, lighters, and tobacco products locked away from baby. Vacuum regularly to remove loose coin change, paper clips, or any small item that can cause choking. Place locks on liquor cabinets; alcohol can be poisonous to young children. Cover radiators and heating vents to prevent burns. Check your doorstops; you may place them at the top of the door but not the ones at the bottom, many have removable caps that pose a choking hazard. Keep toy batteries safely stowed away; they can leak acid, causing serious burns.   - Prathyusha Talluri.