What makes you attractive?

We might be an introvert at soul. But we have to play the Good Samaritan role while living in the society. We may have to please our customers or may have to appease our bosses. If we wish to alight some steps of success... we have to win a few hearts. Here are a few steps that make us acceptable for everyone at every testing time.

Humour

Humour isn’t a trait limited to a few people. Human brains are embedded with sense of humour and even Hitler isn’t an exception for that. A little bit of confidence and ability to express our thoughts is all that’s needed to be humorous. But there are three rules for that- watch the situation, mind your language and dont’ hurt others. Remember! It’s hard to ignore a humorous person.

Confidence

People with bundles of confidence can cast an easy spell over others. The way we look and the way we talk would always be influenced by our confidence.  Even if you are timid at your heart, try to look confident before others. It’s proved that when you act as if you are confident, your confidence gets improved in reality.

The looks

Everyone can’t be a Tom Cruise to be stunningly beautiful. But we all have a body to live in and let’s make it look impressive. Sticking to the basics of grooming is all thats needed to be attractive. Unsuitable clothing, body odour, gloomy face, bad breath... can all devastate our social lives. Simple tips like maintaining good posture and a smile on our face can save us a few impressions.

Boring

No one loves to waste their time with a chatterbox. But it’s hard to get along with a boring person too! So, let’s not turn the environment around us into a meditaion session. Let’s say something, let’s ask something, let’s hum something. Most of us are afraid to run a conversation with the fear of looking ignorant. But the art of conversation can never be perfected unless we speak out! And it’s not that bad to look ignorant sometimes.

Character

We may think that it’s hard to find out the character of a stranger. But human minds are so complicated that they could easily form an impression of one’s character. The way we speak, the way we express, the way we dress and the way we move... would all give some cues about our character. Our pride and humility can easily be judged within a few minutes of conversation. So lets be honest with us and with those around us. And that could certainly win us a few hearts.

- Nirjara